At school, there are things children are expected to do for themselves that you may still help them with at home. Encourage them to do these things independently:
Get dressed
Encourage your child to get themselves dressed and undressed by putting on and taking off their daily clothes and pyjamas. Encourage your child to do as much as they can but reassure them and help when they are struggling.
If your child goes to nursery or pre-school, they’ve probably already mastered putting on their coat. There are some interesting techniques including laying the coat on the floor, putting arms in and flipping it over the head – whatever works for your child. And when it comes to shoes, Velcro is easier!
Go to the toilet, wash and dry their hands
Make sure your child is happy going to the toilet on their own, their uniform is easy to pull down and up (or up and down), and they feel confident enough ask to go.
Don’t worry if they have the odd accident as they’re settling in.
Talk about how important it is to wash their hands really well after going to the toilet. Try covering their hands with paint (the germs) and getting them to practise washing it all off.
Eat with others and use cutlery
All children in England and Wales are entitled to a free school lunch when they start primary school. If your child will be having a hot lunch, involve your child when choosing what they’d like beforehand so that they are prepared. If they’re having packed lunch, make sure they can open cartons and packets and unwrap a sandwich without help. We recommend a healthy school dinner and juices/fizzy drinks are not allowed. We would also recommend not over filling your child’s lunch bag – you can always add to it as your child becomes familiar with eating dinner in the dinner hall.
Lunchtime usually lasts around half an hour, so get them used to sitting at the table without getting up and down and using cutlery to eat their food – it will be expected of them at school.
You may want your child to be able to read and write a little before they start school. That’s fine if it’s what you want and your child is keen to get started, but it’s definitely not a requirement. However, there are a few things you can do that will help on a practical level, and encourage your child to enjoy learning:
Help them recognise their name
It’s helpful if your child can recognise their name written down (you can practise this when you’re labelling all their stuff!). But really don’t worry if they can’t, teachers often put a picture or photo by each child’s name on their pegs and trays to make it easier for them.
Read to them
Research tells us that reading to your child is the most important way you can support your child’s early learning. So make time for bedtime stories and sing lots and lots of nursery rhymes.
Get them used to letters and numbers
This doesn’t need to be anything more than recognising a few familiar letters of the alphabet and numbers up to 10 or 20. There are loads of really colourful and fun alphabet and counting books available – charity shops are great places to pick these up. Choose a few and you’ll soon find a favourite.
With the exception of their first initial, please remember to use lower case letters when writing their name (a, b, c rather than A, B, C). Children will learn capitals (the names of the sounds) later into the Reception year.